Love :)

Today's blog challenge from Two Peas: what does being in love mean to you? Hmmm....well, for me being in love is about the everyday, not the special occasions. Iain and I will be celebrating our 14th anniversary in September, and over the years I have learned:

• if you can stick it out, the bad times do make you stronger and therefore make the good times better
• talk about it!
• there aren't many things sexier than a hubby doing housework without being asked :)
• men are not psychic
• laughter makes the heart grow fonder!
• try and put things in perspective and look at things from your spouse's point of view
• get the kids to bed at a reasonable time so that you can hang out together
• talk about it!
• always remember that the kids will eventually leave home, and you and your hubby will be together, alone, after they leave!
• doing little unexpected things can make someone feel extra-special
• and the last one - talk about it!

Yup, it's all about the communication. Well, that and laughing together - a lot :)